I said, “I believe he was probably a person. There’s some evidence that yes, there was a person named Jesus but I don’t believe he was born of a virgin. No, I don’t, mom.” And her question was,
And because I’m me, I said, “I’m not really clear what good means but yes, I want to help people, I care about people, I like people. And I really love you.” That worked enough for her.
Read MoreAs a believer, I celebrated the story of Christ's partial victory over death. I recognize now my belief in an actual resurrection dulled the pain of loss but also numbed the experience of love. Moments of human connection became insignificant against a backdrop of infinite moments. Love became cheap and empty when the value was diminished by an endless supply. The empty tomb became a void—an aching shell of human experience where we refused to pay the price for love.
Read MoreAn ex-Catholic, a former-Mormon, and a post-Evangelical walk into a bar…
*not a joke, just 3 friends geeking out about the psychology of belief.*
The following is a transcript of a conversation between Brian Peck, LCSW, Carolyn Golden, Psy.D. and James Connelly, Psy.D. recorded for the Life After God podcast on March 13, 2018.
Read More...and therefore professional counselors should address the spiritual component of their humanity, is about as useful as claiming, “All humans have a concept of the sun going down, therefore we should look for ways to strengthen and incorporate this geocentric concept into our experience.”
In the therapeutic relationship, it’s important to meet clients inside their own concepts and provide a context to explore new ways of understanding their experience without unduly imposing our own concepts on them. As therapists, this calls for holding our own concepts lightly and having enough humility and awareness to recognize that much of what we consider to be universal human experiences are socially constructed realities--concepts we’ve collectively bought into.
Read MoreDoubts gave way to basic questions which led you on a quest for knowledge. Before you knew it, you began to ask the big questions and to follow the evidence wherever it led. You tried your best to keep your faith intact as you discovered new information and you created space for uncertainty but despite your best effort…
Initially, you thought there must be something wrong with you, but you came to understand it wasn’t so much a personal crisis of faith as it was...
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